parenting – Cows in the Field

ENOUGH SAID (2013)

We are joined by Jason Bailey, author of Gandolfini: Jim, Tony, and the Life of a Legend, to discuss one of his final films, ENOUGH SAID. We talk about midlife romances, self-destructive tendencies, shaggy stories, and a lot about Mr. Gandolfini’s honest and vulnerable performance. Check it out! You broke my heart. Albert

TALK TO HER (2002)

We sit down with James Miller (The New School) to discuss Pedro Almodovar’s challenging film TALK TO HER. We consider the juxtaposition of beauty and horror, the duality of subjects and objects, the blurry lines around the moral, ballet, and friendship. From death, life emerges. From the masculine, the feminine emerges. Katerina

WHIPLASH (2014)

We are joined by Brad Skow (Philosophy, MIT) to discuss Damien Chazelle’s WHIPLASH! Abuse, striving, greatness, parenting, color, the ending(!), and, of course, jazz. Did I tell you to stop playing? Fletcher

20th CENTURY WOMEN (2016)

We sit down with Chad Perman (Bright Wall / Dark Room) to discuss Mike Mills’ autobiographical love letter to his mom. We discuss how becoming a parent helps you become closer to your own parents, finding ourselves alienated from our own children, empaths, narratives as a source of therapy, and much more! My son wasContinue reading “20th CENTURY WOMEN (2016)”

THE VIRGIN SUICIDES (1999)

It’s just us for our one hundredth episode talking Sophia Coppola’s The Virgin Suicides! We hit all the good stuff: suburban malaise, fear, control, parenting, childhood, Trip Fontaine’s hair, memory, privacy, the joys of human connection, first loves, and Kathleen Turner! Obviously, Doctor, you’ve never been a 13-year-old girl. Cecilia

DOGTOOTH (2009)

We delve into fascism and parenting and fascist parenting with Jack Draper (Exiting Through the 2010s), talking about mechanisms of control, acts of defiance through reclaiming an identity, the role of film as a revolutionary ideal, and, of course, Frank Sinatra. Oh yes, and can you pass the telephone? I’d like to relax in aContinue reading “DOGTOOTH (2009)”

THE BABADOOK (2014)

Is it a bad book or the Ba-Ba-Doo-Doo-Doooooook?? We chat with Libby Hill (The Wrap) about Jennifer Kent’s painful and potent allegory about grief, anxiety, depression, parenting… you know — the BIG STUFF. We discuss how the imagery of the Babadook conveys enveloping dread, and ongoing struggles with our own Babadooks. We talk about beingContinue reading “THE BABADOOK (2014)”

BONUS EPISODE: ON THE ROCKS (2020)

The cows watched Sofia Coppola’s latest and came to very different conclusions, which necessitated an emergency episode to sort it all out. Join us for a maybe autobiographical discussion of the complexities of modern parenting, gendered divisions of cognitive labor, and not losing yourself when asked to shoulder the emotional labor of your friends andContinue reading “BONUS EPISODE: ON THE ROCKS (2020)”